My friend told me about one of her colleagues in office who didn’t get to go to their company trip just because his wife forbade him to go. This guy is a general manager – he oversees the entire office’s operation, has 20 people working under him and yet, he turns into a mouse, seeking for “permission” before going for a company’s trip? Hello?
It’s really befuddling to know there is still such bullshit in this era.
When he went overseas for assignment, she would be calling every hour to check on him. His colleague or subordinate would listen to his meaningless conversation.
“Have you eaten? Why you haven’t eaten?”
In a noisy restaurant
“Why is it so noisy? How come there’s a woman’s voice? I don’t believe she’s a waitress! I demand to speak to your colleague this instant!”
In the hotel room
“Why is it so quiet now? I don’t believe you are in the hotel room! I want to speak to your colleague NOW!”
How could you even live like this? I bet your own parents are not even 10% of your wife’s possessiveness! (not to mention such annoying bitch!)
I can’t blame you if you like it so much to be controlled but for others looking at your situation, it’s indeed vomit inducing to have such wife or husband or partner. If one doesn’t believe in marriage (Yes.. get real!), then there’s no point of being married.
I remember once, I took a friend for a hair cut and somehow our appointment ran late because the whole salon was packed, despite us making an appointment before hand. And my hair – being as obstinate as myself, refused to let its blackness turned to light brown hence, took up most of the time.
Her husband, fuming mad, called her repetitively every 5 minutes and demanded her to go home that instant. She couldn’t because I was driving and, she was also still getting her hair done.
After (demeaning and threatening – you have no freaking idea!) numerous phone calls again and again, her husband came to the hair salon to pick her up – with her hair still dripping wet, she threw some money at the cashier, apologizing profusely to me and bolted! Our hairstylists were all as speechless as I was.
Her husband said a woman should not be going home so late (it was only 9.30 pm) and should not walk alone in the car park by herself (Hello? I am with her? And guess what? Since you insist on taking her home – I am also walking alone in the car park and so am I not a woman??).
You would have guessed it. I don’t go out with her anymore. I didn’t want to be the first domino tablet in breaking her marriage up when it’s already blatantly obvious that both of them have doomed marital issues.
When you build your marriage on such vulnerable foundation called lack of trust, your marriage is definitely heading to the rocks. There’s no point tying down someone based on your own insecurities and make life a living hell for your “loved” ones. It’s simply too much to have a life revolving around your own insecurities. Your loved ones simply don’t deserve to live like this.